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September 24 22 Years YoungSeptember 03 TributeAll it took was 4 minutes. First, a drive to the basket to stop Spain's run and stop Team USA's bleeding. Then it was a shot behind the arc followed by a drive and dish to Dwight Howard. Finally, to end Spain's hope of a miraculous upset, a 4-point play while also disqualifying red hot Fernandez with his fifth foul. Game over. He did exactly what they got him on the team to do. Kobe Bryant did not need the entire Olympics to showcase his greatness. He needed 4 minutes. For the entire Games he took a backseat while letting youngsters LeBron and Wade show the rest of the world how the beautiful basketball can be. But when the game is on the line, all you need is a small dose of Kobe. Even with LeBron, Wade, Melo et al, you wouldn't want the ball in anybody else's hands but Kobe's when the game is on the line. In the biggest game of the Olympics and possibly for the other 11 members of Tea USA, Kobe Bryant made it clear why there should be no dispute when it comes to the greatest player in the game today. Being a Bryant (and subsequently a Lakers) fan even before he graced the league, I find it hard to believe or understand why there are so many haters out there. I find it difficult to understand how do you hate a player who has almost perfected the game in every sense. When he first entered the league, I can understand how many perceive him as cocky, arrogant, overconfident, selfish. He is still all that, but over the years he has at least justified his reason for being all those things. However, the hating never stopped. When he won 3 straight championships, there were haters. When he scored 40 points in 9 straight games, there were haters. When he broke the record with 11 threes in a game, there were haters When he won MVP, there were even more haters.
But then again, Jesus had his haters too. If you are a fan of the game itself and not the hype, maybe you can start to appreciate his god-given ability on court. If you play the game of basketball, you will start to realise how difficult it is to master the game the way Kobe has. Kobe has reached a level where he can strike fear into his defender even before the game is tipped off. People even hated when he scored 81 points in a single game. ONE game. 81 points. Try doing that in pickup games. No, try doing that by yourself without anyone defending you and see how difficult it is to reach 81. What fans or haters don't get is that in 4 - 5 years, we may not see Kobe Bryant play basketball again. Haters have to even admit that watching Kobe play is like watching an artist in work. He makes the game look so easy. I wish I had the luxury of watching every game he plays because every time I do, I see things that I have never seen before or probably will ever again. And then I try to emulate it on the court and it gives me a further admiration of his basketball ability. The NBA is fortunate that Kobe has inherited the status of Jordan. Unfortunately, what he has not inherited is the respect he deserves.
Like Jay Z, it gives Kobe even more reason to say "We'll see what happens when I no longer exist". August 28 Easily ForgottenEverybody remembers (or still has) Nintendo's Game Boy, but why nobody ever talks about this anymore?
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![]() I always wanted one back then but my parents never allowed it. I think it's a worthy mention when people brings up stuff about the 90s. This was the IT thing when it came to handheld gaming back then...and it was the first handheld thing that had colour!
Definitely kicks PSP's butt in my opinion. August 25 Movies that I haven't but would like to watch
I know. And since I haven't watched The Godfather, I obviously haven't seen Actually, not really Clockwork Orange but people tell me its good so I think I should.
Actually, there's more but that's all I can remember at the moment. Anyways, for those who have the above DVDs, kindly let me borrow them. August 14 Overblown?
While I think the entire issue of this ad was overblown, I think it was more stupid than it was offensive. Won't they at least sit down, brainstorm and think that maybe some people might not take the ad the way it was intended? That while it was never meant to meant to be racially insulting, the media might turn this around and say it was? That to launch the ad just before the Olympics, that the Olympics is gonna be held in CHINA, that the Spanish team IS gonna play in China, maybe just a tad be wrongly timed? Did they think that this was gonna make the Chinese smile and think this ad was a tribute to them? Really? As a Chinese (however banana I may be), I was never insulted when I saw this ad. It just made me think of the stupidity of it all. There are three stupid parties to be blamed here: 1. The ad company for actually thinking this was a good idea: Granted that they (hopefully) never intended it as a racial statement and was actually a salute to the Chinese for the Olympics, but thinking that the ad and this picture won't be circulated around the world within minutes of it getting published is just plain dumb. Spain already has a bad reputation for being racist (the Thierry Henry motivation tactic by the coach, the monkey chants during the friendly vs England, the Lewis Hamilton issue during the Barcelona GP) and this ad doesn't help. 2. The Spanish basketball team for going along with this idea: Hello, maybe it slipped your mind that you are gonna be playing on the world's biggest sporting stage? And that stage happens to be in China?? As my dad would put it, "No cow sense!!". 3. The sporting company/sponsors for agreeing to publish this ad: If haven't heard, this whole thing was actually also to promote the fact that the Spanish Basketball team is sponsored by the Chinese sporting brand, Li-Ning (the Chinese Nike). For a Chinese company to think that this isn't degrading for the Chinese race is simply mind boggling. And to not retract the ad with an apology after it was blown out of proportion by the media is just stupid. Try doing an ad featuring black people shown as slaves when the Olympics is hosted in Africa and let's see if its still funny. The whole controversy was definitely overhyped and I doubt a lot of Chinese will take offense, but don't even try touching a sensitive issue. Having slit eyes isn't something the Chinese are proud of. August 07 WowI just realise that I'm actually a very forward thinking person. I struggle to wake up every morning for work. In the midst my struggle, I am already thinking of my schedule for the day and if I am able to come back early for an evening after-work nap. I think its the only time where I actually plan ahead. August 04 Green is inGonna start my third week at The Gardens when I wake in the morning. So far, my tenure at The Gardens have gone off to a pretty great start. I'm slowly but hopefully surely gettin used to the working culture and pretty much enjoying it so far.
The only thing I still feel weird about is that people are too nice to me. It's like every little thing I do, I get a "Good job!" or a "Great job! Glad to have you on board!". It's like they're so easily impressed, and their praises have come so often that it's come to the point of being a lil annoying. Annoying because it feels as though they don't expect me to do a good job, so they get impressed when I do.
Perhaps I'm just not used to getting praised so often. I haven't received this amount of compliments ever in my life, not even from my own parents!
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Friday nite was fun. I was actually looking forward to the party the entire week as I knew it was gonna be fun partying with current and former colleagues as well as former clients. One thing I gotta admit; STYLO and RAPR sure throws the bestest parties in town. The setup was awesome and alcohol certainly made the partying better. Kudos to STYLO and all the best for Singapore.
When I left RAPR/STYLO three weeks back, I always felt relieved that I ain't gonna be stayin up late nights worrying about events anymore. When the party started though and when the ballroom doors opened, I suddenly felt left out as I watched Ah Neh running around with his walkie and the entire HiVolt team working in the console area. Damn. I honestly miss those days. Never thought I would.
I've been doing it for so long (well, two years at RAPR feels extremely long) that while everything felt so familiar, I was in the unfamiliar position of being the guest instead. I kinda miss the running around, staying up late for setup and the sense of accomplishment after the event is over.
It's something I'm still getting used to. And hopefully in time, I'll look back at events and be glad that I ain't the one running around no more. But for now, a part of me misses the action. July 21 Stupidity
Nigel on Why He Smokes BANGSAR: Renowned Bangsarian Nigel Gan defended his habit of smoking in a press conference held yesterday at Bangsar Village II. Gan was responding to recent questions raised about his habit of smoking. Gan said his smoking habit is a long-term plan to stay healthy, stating that his smoking habit cuts down his need to binge on unhealthy snacks which may eventually lead to health problems. "Please understand that the only reason I am smoking is because I am looking after my health. If I don't, I will develop a habit of eating snacks which causes obesity and diabetes. "I am not saying that smoking is healthy, but in reality it is healthier then eating unhealthy food. It will also help me save money in the long run as smoking also helps reduce stress. I have studied all angles before deciding to start smoking" he said. Gan also defended himself on another accusation of him being a shopaholic, stating it is also part of his long term plan to cut costs. "If I have the money now, why can't I buy the things I need? Isn't it better to buy now rather than buying in the future when prices are increasing everyday? Isn't this saving money?" - Reuters July 14 First Day JittersWell, not exactly jitters, but I never liked the first day of anything. Its always very awkward, confusing, shy and boring. Things seem so unfamiliar and everybody seems too nice. I always feel like a fool being shown around the office. I guess I don't really like changes. Nobody does. I guess I just got too comfortable with my daily routines at the old place that I feel uneasy trying to adapt and adjust to new ones.
So the first day at the new place was like that. Boring, awkward and trying to adjust and adapt.
Hopefully this "adjusting" period doesn't take too long.
July 07 You Know You're Having a Quarter Life Crisis When..1. You start (and enjoy) reminiscing about old times in high school or college and how much fun and care free it was.
2. You rather sit in a cafe with a bunch of friends and just chatting rather than having fun at a club or getting drunk.
3. You're critical of the "youths" today, and start comparing how different it was then even though you were at that age just not too long ago.
4. Old songs you grew up to starts being more enjoyable than the new songs that are being played now.
5. You start watching the old cartoons and shows you grew up to and usually comment about how they don't have shows like these anymore.
6. Getting drunk is not that fun anymore and doing the random stuff you used to do back in the day seems rather crazy and "undo-able" now
7. You constantly complain about your job or sometimes feel insecure about your job or career path.
8. You costantly need (and want) more money to "survive".
9. You want the volume of the radio in the car to be slightly softer so you can enjoy a conversation with the passengers in your car.
10. Loud music seems to annoy the fuck out of you.
11. You do not have a huge group of friends like you used to in college or high school but feel rather more comfortable to sticking to your small group of friends.
12. You start planning for the future cos living for the day just doesn't seem to work anymore.
13. You yearn for more holidays so you can escape the harsh realities of work life.
14. You start using the phrase "those days ar.."
Sigh.... July 03 Then and Now
Cartoons these days are rather lame compared to what we use to have during the 80s or early 90s. Although back then cartoons were mostly a marketing ploy to sell cool toys, I think the various concepts of the cartoons were cool, even though most of them had the basic good vs evil theme (and for some reason, all of them had cool helmets. I guess kids were very fascinated by helmets back then). The Visionaries
M.A.S.K (Mobile Armored Strike Kommand)
Dino Riders I distinctively remembered these toys being the coolest and most expensive. I think I only had 1 or 2 of these toys, and it would still be cool if it was selling today.
Thundercats
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles I had Donatello. The Real Ghost Busters
There were obviously more but these were personally my favourites. However, try watching it again now (they have episodes on youtube!) and it seems really stupid. The jokes, the animation, etc all seems quite weird and silly now. Try laughing at the one liner jokes they always have at the end of every episode, where the whole team will laugh together till the credits start rolling.
I still think cartoons back then were WAY cooler than the lame ones they have now:
I think there's no contest. June 18 PerfectEverybody dreams of having a perfect life or wants everything to be perfect. The perfect exam scores, the perfect job, the perfect boyfriend or girlfriend, the perfect wedding, the perfect marriage, the perfect car, the perfect holiday. Most people yearn for even simple things to be perfect, like first dates or having sex for the first time. However, have you ever tried keeping score on how many things you plan to be perfect actually materialised? And if you can say you've achieved everything perfectly, why the hell are you still doing reading this blog then? Go live your perfect life.
For me at least, and I bet it goes for alot of you out there, a majority of things never turn out the way I hope for it to be (be it for better or worse). Thats why I've stop dreaming a long time ago and just do the best I can, and just hopefully get (pleasently) surprised by the results. I've stop trying to predict the outcome and get dissapointed when it doesn't turn out as I want it to be, and being more appreciative for what I do achieve. Call me a pessimist, but I call it damage control.
I don't find myself the luckiest person in ther world. I'm not saying I'm not lucky AT ALL and I'm not saying I ain't grateful for what I have, but I just feel that I've had enough experiences where I get dissapointed more often than not when I expect the most. But I daresay that if something doesn't turn out the way I expect it to be, I'm fortunate enough in a sense that something else will happen that doesn't seem so bad after all. That's how MY luck works anyway.
I find it easier to take one game at a time. Take whatever's on my plate and not think too much of whats gonna happen in the future. For example, alot of people think they already have the blueprint for their life; they graduate at age 21, get a job that pays great, fuck around for abit and get married when they're 30, have 3 kids by 40 and retire at age 55. Then if things don't work out exactly like they planned it, they start panicking and have to think up a whole new gameplan.
That's why for me, its scary to plan out my life that way. I'd rather see what I already have and then see what I can do with what I have. Should things turn out better, then hey its all good. Again, to me, its damage control. I don't get disspointed if I don't really expect anything.
But don't get it confused. It's not like I don't have any goals in life, but I don't set unachievable goals or put a timeline to it. It's like I wanna be a millionaire, but I don't think I'm gonna bother too much about when as long as I achieve it.
Sometimes when I see a couple and the guy gets into his Nissan GTR or a BMW, the first thing that comes to my mind is that they're really lucky and how I wish my life was as perfect as his. But then when I do think about it again, I don't think anybody's perfect or living the perfect life. That guy in the BMW could well have more problems then I do. His girlfriend probably sleeps with Tom, Dick AND Harry and he doesn't know about it. Everybody has their own problems. I bet even Hugh Hefner can't get it up every once in a while.
My life has been far from perfect, but I sure ain't complaining. I think I'm at a point where I'm somewhat grateful what I have and what I've achieved, and it ain't all that bad (right?). Do I wish for a better life? Sure. Do I want a life that even Vincent Chase would envy? Of course. But do I expect or think it will ever happen to me? Probably not.
Its safe to say I'm contented with my life at present moment. I've a job, a great loving girlfriend, great friends and a great family.
That's all I need for now. June 16 The Greatest Thing Since Sliced BreadI never understood the meaning of that phrase. It's a very typical overused "American" phrase.
So, the next question would be "What's the greatest thing BEFORE sliced bread?". And was the creation of sliced bread that great anyway? Was it like a major celebration when sliced bread was finally made available? And if the statement is used so generally, why doesn't the benchmark change accordingly? Why do we stillkeep referring to sliced bread?
The phrase "the greatest thing since sliced bread" (and variations thereof) is a commonly used hyperbolic means of praising an invention or development. Sliced bread appears to be something of an arbitrary selection as the benchmark against which later inventions should be judged. It has been said that "the phrase is the ultimate depiction of innovative achievement and American know-how", although it is commonly used in the United Kingdom as well. The popular use of the phrase derives from the fact that Wonder Bread, the first mass-marketer of sliced bread as a product, launched a 1930s ad campaign touting the innovation. |
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